Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts

Sunday, October 25, 2009

My Night With the Police

The other night, I got to go for a ride in a police car.


No, not because I was bad. If you know me, you know that I am not like that. As this kid from work would say, I am "One of those good juniors". Being a good junior was actually what got me the chance to do the ride along. I am part of this leadership group in the city, and they set up ride alongs for anyone who wanted to do it.

On Thursday, I arrived at the police station five minutes before 4:00, right when they told me to be there. Actually, I had to speed to get there in time. Luckily, no one asked about that, and I didn't tell. So I got there at 4:00, and filled out the sheet of paper that the receptionist gave me, and waited. Come 4:15, I was still waiting. Around rolled 4:30, and I'm still patiently sitting in the PD lobby, wondering if I will ever get to go for my ride. After all, I had homework to do that night!

Finally, Officer Long came out the door to get me. She told me that she was sorry, and that she had to make some phone calls, which was what made her late. Once we got in the car, I realized that this cop was cool, and I was going to enjoy being in her car. We pulled up to her normal car in order to get some papers. I waited to see which car she would go to. In the vicinity there were a couple choices: a pickup, a jeep, a minivan, and a bright orange mustang. Yeah, she chose the mustang. I would later realize that she is a dog lover and a football fan, as well as owned a cooler car than all the macho policemen.

Throughout the ride, she was extremely easy to get along with. She answered all of my questions, let me eat (when we stopped at McDonald's for a call, only to find the people had left), joked with me about the people, gave me one of her turkey bites, and even showed me some of the flood zone. Not only was I lucky to be able to go on the ride, but I was extremely lucky to get such a cool partner.

During the ride, we saw some...odd... people, and even heard about some cases that made us either roll our eyes or raise our eyebrows. To start the night off, we sat for about thirty minutes on the side of the interstate, in the middle of the most dangerous section that passes through downtown. In the rain. The only reason we stayed was to make sure no one "crunched" the car that we was to be towed. Basically, we were there to get hit, but we survived. Right away, we went to the McDonald's case. There was supposed to be a disturbance between a mother and daughter in the restaurant, but we got there and nobody was there. I got to get some food, and then we left for a domestic disturbance.

This case was the first one that made us just roll our eyes. The reason we were called there was because a girl had called saying that a man was pushing mommy. A very valid reason for the police to arrive, I would say. However, when the officers got back (two officers go because they don't know what to expect, and I waited in the car), I learned that the man was actually mommy's boyfriend, and they were breaking up. Mommy was jealous because he was with another woman. Oh yeah, Mommy was pregnant with the man's baby, as well. So the officers told them to figure it out, as they can't make him leave his place of residence.

At this point, Officer Long had to pee....

Saturday, September 12, 2009

Did you ask?

I really don't know if there is a way to write significant amounts of anything about people and avoid hitting on the subject of relationships. But I don't know if I really want to go into it too much right now. I think a good place to start is with something that is current at our school: homecoming. It such a different general feeling than during the rest of the year. Everyone is pairing up with the opposite sex and grouping up with other "couples". The hot topic nearly every day is who is going with who, how Joe asked Jill, etc.



One item that a few of my friends have expressed interest in is the fact that their girlfriends still expect them to ask them to the dance. Yes, a man's girlfriend, for some unknown reason, still expects him to ask her to an event that they both know they are going to attend together. It's not like he's going to ask or go with someone else, yet he must put flowers in her car, or surprise her at a cross-country meet with a sign (props to N.N. for that idea, although unused. Also, no I do not have a girlfriend). Is there some romantic gene that is only present in the female gender that possesses them to desire this confirmation of a partnership? I don't know if I'm alone, but I think it would just be a waste of time and money creating a special way to ask the person you already know you're going with. I really don't have much else to say on this point; it's just too odd.